So, I feel like such an idiot sometimes.
I’m guessing you, too, have been interacting with lots of different people who all communicate. And I seem to have a really hard time communicating effectively with them all.
As the saying goes, “The world would be a boring place if we were all the same.”
But would it? Because I’m starting to think it would be so. Much. Easier.
Not less exciting. I’m sure it would be kinda boring. But less frustrating and discouraging.
I know, idiot idea, right?
Nowadays, the world runs on text-based communication. Emails, text messages, blog posts 😉 And we’ve all heard the statistics about how much less we communicate with others verbally than any generation before us. And I’m thinking, “Ya, that’s cool; that isn’t necessarily a bad thing.”
It is a bad thing. Because over text, it is so much easier to interpret messages as mean, negative, degrading, etc.
And I’m always thinking to myself, “Surely they don’t mean it like that…do they?”
Because I wouldn’t mean it that way. I was raised to say please and thank you. Yes, ma’am and no sir. To be polite and to put effort and thought into how someone on the other end might interpret my words.
But, not everyone else does.
And this is were I wish we were all the same.
I’ve heard all the stuff about how it’s the receiver’s fault for how they understand the relayed message. And I couldn’t disagree more. Communication is a two-way street! And the deliverer has to take some responsibility for how his or her message is interpreted.
So imagine, before typing an email or sending out that tweet, if everyone were to really considered how their words will be received.
What a wonderful world it could be 🙂